Friend or Vacuum Salesman?
by John Fischer
We've all heard the story before, or perhaps it even happened to you.You receive a visit from a friend you haven't seen in a long time. You are overjoyed at the reunion and honored that your friend would see the relationship worth cultivating and would actually seek you out. Or it might be a person you are just starting to get to know, and there are encouraging signs of a potential friendship.
In the course of a pleasant conversation, with the talk shifting randomly from one subject to another you suddenly find you are discussing the virtues of various vacuum cleaners. You friend brightens at the topic because he's recently had some great results with an amazing new machine that he extols with great pleasure. You are so taken by his excitement that you find yourself wanting to know where you might find one of these amazing vacuum cleaners since your old model has paled in comparison to his vivid description, and you've been thinking about looking into a new one anyway. It's then that your new friend offers to solve all your problems by selling you one on the spot at a "one-time-only, low, low price of $69.95."
Suddenly you feel an awful knot in the pit of your stomach. It's not unlike the feeling you had when you came home one day to find your house had been burglarized. You feel violated, used. And you feel stupid for trusting this person and making yourself vulnerable to his schemes. He's not after a friendship; he's after a sale.
A believer's mission to share Christ with people is one of the five great purposes for which we exist. But without the other four to balance it, we can end up peddling Christ with similar results. Even laying hold of a conversation with the intent of steering it in a particular direction can feel manipulative to a person.
If I listen to the other purposes in this light, I remember that God is in control of everyone's own road to discovery. I don't make anyone see the truth, I am only witness to what I have seen and heard. My relationship with people is an end in itself, regardless of whether or not they are Christian or Muslim, or Jewish or atheists. My purpose is to serve people, not sell them something. And maturity tells me that the Holy Spirit is my guide as to what to say and when, so as to not even worry about this or be overly conscious of my role in someone's life as providing anything other than love and support.
We don't take God's word, water it down, and then take it to the streets to sell it cheap. We stand in Christ's presence when we speak; God looks us in the face. We get what we say straight from God and say it as honestly as we can. (2 Corinthians 2:17 The Message)
This is taken from 'the purpose driven life daily devotion. go sign up =))
by John Fischer
We've all heard the story before, or perhaps it even happened to you.You receive a visit from a friend you haven't seen in a long time. You are overjoyed at the reunion and honored that your friend would see the relationship worth cultivating and would actually seek you out. Or it might be a person you are just starting to get to know, and there are encouraging signs of a potential friendship.
In the course of a pleasant conversation, with the talk shifting randomly from one subject to another you suddenly find you are discussing the virtues of various vacuum cleaners. You friend brightens at the topic because he's recently had some great results with an amazing new machine that he extols with great pleasure. You are so taken by his excitement that you find yourself wanting to know where you might find one of these amazing vacuum cleaners since your old model has paled in comparison to his vivid description, and you've been thinking about looking into a new one anyway. It's then that your new friend offers to solve all your problems by selling you one on the spot at a "one-time-only, low, low price of $69.95."
Suddenly you feel an awful knot in the pit of your stomach. It's not unlike the feeling you had when you came home one day to find your house had been burglarized. You feel violated, used. And you feel stupid for trusting this person and making yourself vulnerable to his schemes. He's not after a friendship; he's after a sale.
A believer's mission to share Christ with people is one of the five great purposes for which we exist. But without the other four to balance it, we can end up peddling Christ with similar results. Even laying hold of a conversation with the intent of steering it in a particular direction can feel manipulative to a person.
If I listen to the other purposes in this light, I remember that God is in control of everyone's own road to discovery. I don't make anyone see the truth, I am only witness to what I have seen and heard. My relationship with people is an end in itself, regardless of whether or not they are Christian or Muslim, or Jewish or atheists. My purpose is to serve people, not sell them something. And maturity tells me that the Holy Spirit is my guide as to what to say and when, so as to not even worry about this or be overly conscious of my role in someone's life as providing anything other than love and support.
We don't take God's word, water it down, and then take it to the streets to sell it cheap. We stand in Christ's presence when we speak; God looks us in the face. We get what we say straight from God and say it as honestly as we can. (2 Corinthians 2:17 The Message)
This is taken from 'the purpose driven life daily devotion. go sign up =))
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